Well, I'm exaggerating a little... a lot of my guy friends are, you know, decent people who know how to trust.
But my problem with this particular guy is that... he's not a stranger. Far from it. He's actually a relatively close friend. Not, like, my bestest friend ever, but... for two average people of opposite sexes who just met at the beginning of this academic year? We're really pretty close. He knows me. He knows me pretty well. And... even if he was awkward around me being all emotional (which I really would totally understand)... he didn't react at all. I might as well have not been there. And that wasn't the only time. He constantly barely even acknowledges anyone's presence. It's not all the time- when he's in a good mood he's totally fine. But if he just decides that he doesn't want to or whatever, we may as well not be there. And when I'm... hell, screw the emotional crisis. When I'm in the same room as him, even if I seem like I'm in my own little bubble or whatever, he could at least wave hello. And he doesn't. Almost ever. And that's what I have a problem with. He's not at all a stranger.
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Date: 2011-02-01 08:06 pm (UTC)But my problem with this particular guy is that... he's not a stranger. Far from it. He's actually a relatively close friend. Not, like, my bestest friend ever, but... for two average people of opposite sexes who just met at the beginning of this academic year? We're really pretty close. He knows me. He knows me pretty well. And... even if he was awkward around me being all emotional (which I really would totally understand)... he didn't react at all. I might as well have not been there. And that wasn't the only time. He constantly barely even acknowledges anyone's presence. It's not all the time- when he's in a good mood he's totally fine. But if he just decides that he doesn't want to or whatever, we may as well not be there. And when I'm... hell, screw the emotional crisis. When I'm in the same room as him, even if I seem like I'm in my own little bubble or whatever, he could at least wave hello. And he doesn't. Almost ever. And that's what I have a problem with. He's not at all a stranger.